"The best kind of love is the kind that awakens the soul, makes us reach for more, plants a fire in our hearts, and brings peace to our minds." --From "The Notebook"

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Happy 7th Birthday, Lady-Lou Princess Pooh!

Tuesday, March 24th--That's my nickname for Elise. She thinks I'm silly for all the nicknames I come up with but it's my way of maintaining my special bond with my kids, among many other things. Anyhoo, Elise turns 7 today. This has been a special birthday as we have discussed this coming year and her preparation to be baptized. She's excited and seems to understand so much already. I am just waiting anxiously for that moment when she puts on the baptismal outfit I wore for my special day, many years ago. For now, we'll enjoy her 7th year and all the wonderful things in store.
We celebrated Elise's birthday on Saturday, the 21st. Nate and I did a BBQ and most of his family was able to attend. My sister, Alishia, called right before to let me know she wouldn't be able to attend due to a migraine. It was a great night. Fun to visit with family, as always. Elise received some fun gifts, including a hula hoop. We didn't know she had such talent with a hula hoop but we're finding she's a total pro! Other people had fun trying to hula hoop as well, we caught our newly-turned 15 year-old nephew, Cameron, giving it a shot. Rather funny, I must say!
Sunday night we went up to Salt Lake to visit my grandma in a care facility. Her health has gone down hill even more so and, by the looks of her Sunday night, I sadly say I don't think she'll be with us much longer. Even so, I enjoyed my visit with her and was so thankful to spend time with her. Before going to see "grams" we went over to Alishia's house and she cooked a wonderful dinner--Nate's favorite, calzones. Alishia and her family gave Elise a "Hello Kitty" backpack full of fun goodies.
Today was just making the best of her birthday while also tending our niece and nephew. We had a great day but I'm glad we were able to celebrate this weekend. Nate brought home "Pie Pizza" and a small cake so we lit up candles again and Elise loved blowing them out and making another wish.
*Elise, you are so special to me. My first born and I can't help but love that my first child was/is a girl. We've enjoyed some wonderful times together and I look forward to so many countless more. You bring so much happiness and joy to our lives. You are witty, funny, incredibly smart and hilariously entertaining! I love you so much and look forward to all this year will bring for you.
Love always and forever, Mom.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Happy 9th Anniversary!

Tuesday, March 10th--Nine years ago, Nate and I spent the morning at the Salt Lake Temple being married for time and all eternity. I truly wish I could remember what the sealer said during our ceremony, all I remember is that he was very long-winded. I do remember kneeling at the alter, holding Nate's hand, looking at him, getting teary-eyed and thinking "Nothing will ever feel as right as the choice I made, this day, to marry this man." I still feel that way! All the decisions that have felt right since then have been made with Nate. We've built a life and family together. We've been through good times and bad with plenty of arguments and plenty of moments of pure joy. Here's wishing many more years of wedded "bliss" to come! I love the quote: "We may not have it all together, but together we have it all!"
Saturday, March 14th--We just returned home from an amazing night, celebrating our anniversary. We dropped the kids off at my sister, Alishia's house where they spent the night. Then off to Desert Star Theater to watch "Home School Musical". I LOVE this theater and highly recommend it to anyone. They spoof popular movies and topics (the next one is "American Fork Idol"). We usually laugh like crazy as they incorporate jokes involving news headlines and stereotypical Mormon "tendancies" (there's usually a High Councilman joke! he he). We bought season tickets as our anniversary gift to each other. At the end of the show the actors will sing "Happy Birthday" to those celebrating birthdays and "Let Me Call You Sweetheart" to those who are celebrating anniversaries. After the "Sweetheart" song the couples are asked to stand up and kiss each other. There were 3 of us couples celebrating, the other two have been married for 6 and 8 years. Each of them kissed first and both were rather "whimpy" kisses, so, since we were the last to kiss, I decided to plant a big 'ol smooch on Nate and let everyone know that the couple who had been married the longest still had passion! LOL! We had fun!
Then off to Armstrong Mansion Bed & Breakfast in downtown Salt Lake. If you go to their website: http://www.armstrongmansion.com/ you will find a listing, pictures and virtual tours of each of the rooms. We chose the "April" room and it was pretty nice. We enjoyed staying there and no, we didn't get a discount for having the same last name nor do we think we're related to these Armstrongs.
While our big vacation is still 4 weeks away this little mini-vacay was a great way to re-charge our batteries, especially since both the kids have been little demons this week, worst of which was on our actual anniverary!
Once again, Nate, I love you with all my heart and look forward to many more years to come!
**PS: Brady took this photo! We took some of ourselves and, oddly enough, this one turned out the best. Way to go, Brady!

Monday, March 9, 2009

Update on Little Miss Darci

Monday, March 9th--Darci came home from Primary Childrens Medical Center on Thursday night, March 5th. The pediatric endocrinologist, Dr. Swinyard, (also Brady's doctor) felt mom and dad did well with the education and Darci's glucose levels were stable enough to release them and get them home to begin their new routine. To be expected, there's been plenty of nervous feelings coming from Bret and Marissa and I'm glad they feel comfortable calling us for advice.
Darci's response to her treatment has been miraculous. It was a month of pure hell fighting Brady and pinning him down in order to give him his insulin shots and finger pokes. After that he finally was sitting still for both. In less than a week, Darci is sitting quietly to do her finger pokes, even picking the finger she prefers at the time, and having her leg ready to do an insulin shot. She still whimpers a little but I'm so amazed at her, what seems to be, quick acceptance of the treatment for her Type 1 Diabetes.
She confirmed it to me in the hospital with her little hug and cuddle before I left, she HAS amazed us all with her ability to endure and strength. Way to go, Darci!
Prayers are still appreciated but I think Darci and her family are going to be just fine, even Christopher and Xander (her older brothers) have taken an interest.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

The Newest Face of Diabetes

Tuesday, March 3rd--In just 3 weeks we'll be coming up on the 2nd anniversary of Brady's Type 1 Diabetes diagnosis. It's been on my mind a lot and today we got some news that absolutely shocked us. My sister-in-law, Marissa, called me around 2:30 pm and told me that she was at Primary Children's Medical Center with her barely 2-year-old daughter, Darci, and Darci had just been diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes. As soon as she told me I just wanted to be there with her and my brother-in-law, Bret to give them comfort. I'm so grateful she allowed me to. I packed up the kids, took them to my sisters house (thank you, Alishia, for being so willing at the last minute!) and headed up. I arrived a little after 4:15 and they were still in the ER waiting for a room to open up. Poor little Darci just looked so miserable. She had an IV in and whimpered at any little thing as she clung to either parent. My heart just broke and was brought to tears many times over while I was there. This is the exact same age Brady was diagnosed and all those memories of our experience came flooding back. I just hurt for them and what they will be going through the next few days and months as they adjust to this new "normal". On top of this terrible news, Marissa is coping with a high-risk pregnancy and had just been diagnosed with gestational diabetes last week. Darci is the youngest, she has two older brothers, Christopher (6) and Xander (4). Baby Eliza is due in May but will probably come earlier.
This is not a disease I would wish upon anyone, especially the sweetest, most gentle little two-year old girl you've ever met! It's not fair and only our Father in Heaven understands all the reasons, especially at what is already a difficult time for their family. But Nathan and I are thankful to have the knowledge that we do and that we can help out whenever needed. Bret and Marissa had a lot of questions and I hope I was able to put their minds at ease a little. Marissa was also able to talk to Brady's pediatric endocrinologist, Dr. Mike Swinyard, tonight and it seems he was able to help out too. He's pretty awesome at doing that! To prepare them for this disease, Primary Childrens Medical Center is the best. We had such an amazing experience during Brady's hospital stay and they will have that too---I had already noticed that the few hours I was there tonight.
As I was about to leave the hospital tonight I held Darci for a moment. She put her head on my shoulder and I just wept again but I also had a feeling in my heart that she will amaze us all with her strength and ability to endure--much like her brave cousin did almost 2 years ago and continues to do so.
Please keep them in your prayers! To Bret, Marissa, and Darci---you are all strong and I know our Father in Heaven will bless you and comfort you in your time of need. He will reveal to you courage and strength you never understood you had. With this courage and strength you will have the ability to adapt and make diabetes a part of your family's life without it consuming your life. You need not feel alone, we are here for you at any time. We love you all!

My Little Brace Face!

Tuesday, March 3rd--HA HA! Elise got a few braces on her front teeth today. She was such a brave little trooper. She didn't cry at all and it looked uncomfortable just to even watch so I can only imagine what she felt! She had to get little rubber bands put around each brace and got to pick the color. Naturally she chose a Princess pink color and I think she looks quite adorable. So far, so good. She hasn't complained about them all day. These braces are the last phase in "Phase 1". She'll be done in about 3-5 months (I hope!) and then we have to wait for all her permanent teeth to come in to do a full set of braces. The orthodontist says that'll happen around 12 years old.

Draper LDS Temple Open House

Friday, February 27th--Tonight we met up with my Aunt Maureen and her family to attend the Draper LDS Temple Open House. We got the kids all dressed up in their fancy duds (Brady got some new clothes because The Childrens Place was having some killer clearance items! I love him in "newsboy" hats!) and we set off to get there before our 8:00 pm time slot. The meeting place was at a nearby church and after an hour wait we caught a bus up to the temple and went in.
Inside the temple it was absolutely beautiful. There was ornate furniture and decor everywhere. This was our childrens first temple open house so they were able to just soak in all the wondrous things. They had their little pamphlets and would get excited every time we went into a room that had a picture of it in there. Their favorite room was the room with the baptismal font. That font looked so inviting, I think we all just wanted to jump in and enjoy the warmth and the bubbles! Nate and I enjoyed talking to Brady and Elise and explaining to them the different rooms and purposes. The Celestial Room was quite stunning and I loved the blue accents throughout the temple and within the stained glass windows.
On the way home we stopped at JCW's for some delicious shakes and spent the rest of the drive home talking about temples and answering other questions the kids had for us. We look forward to taking the kids to the Oquirrh LDS Temple Open House coming up soon as well. This is such an amazing oppurtunity and I'm glad we took and will take advantage of it. I realize how blessed we are to live in Utah and have so many temples to go to. Growing up near Seattle, there is only one and it's a hour and a 1/2 drive away so having 4 within a half hour of us is truly a blessing.

Oh, The Things You Can Make With Blocks!

Wednesday, February 18th--Elise and Brady were having fun in Brady's room playing with Lego's blocks and Elise decided the blocks could spell words so she slowly built this little message for me. I was so touched! She enjoyed doing it and I felt bad when I had to tell her to clean up the blocks and put them away because it was dinner time and, as you can tell, she placed them next to the dining table. Thanks Elise! I love you too......very much!